{"id":288,"date":"2016-04-20T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-04-20T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/?p=288"},"modified":"2024-07-12T04:35:35","modified_gmt":"2024-07-12T04:35:35","slug":"addiction-and-trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/addiction-and-trust\/","title":{"rendered":"Addiction and trust:"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>May 30, 2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A former drug addict himself, Marc Lewis now researches addiction. In order to get over ones addiction, he explains, <strong>self-trust is necessary<\/strong>. Unfortunately, self- trust is extremely difficult for an addict to achieve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two factors that make it so difficult to get over an addiction: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>lack of self-control<\/strong> and <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>an inability to put off reward<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>An addict wants his fix and he wants it now, despite the risk of losing out on a happier, healthier future. The way to build self-trust, Lewis explained, and get over an addiction is for the addict to begin an <strong>internal dialogue<\/strong> with his future self to convince his present self that <strong>it can<\/strong>, in fact, live without its addiction. Lewis finished by explaining how he did just that. <strong>By writing the simple word &#8216;NO&#8217; on a piece of paper and reading it at every moment he had a craving<\/strong>, he gradually started believing that if he could cope a few hours without drugs, then he could cope for a few days and, eventually, for good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He pleads that the only real way to help addicts is to <strong>motivate<\/strong> them <strong>to place their trust in themselves<\/strong> and to <strong>encourage them to engage in their own positive internal dialogue<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=e3p_LuTM73k\">On YouTube By Marc Lewis at TED<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>May 30, 2013 A former drug addict himself, Marc Lewis now researches addiction. In order to get over ones addiction, he explains, self-trust is necessary. Unfortunately, self- trust is extremely difficult for an addict to achieve. There are two factors that make it so difficult to get over an addiction: An addict wants his fix [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","hide_page_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-288","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=288"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":468,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288\/revisions\/468"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=288"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=288"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ukesbaha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=288"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}